OK. It kind of goes without saying that this is a
difficult post to write. After three and
a half years, it’s time to put an end to the madness. The Mekong Moggys Madness that is. As we draw closer and closer to that looming
departure date it’s time to wrap things up, put a bow on it and pop it on the
cyber shelf in preparation for the next chapter of our lives.
I initially
started this blog as a way to share our experiences here in Vietnam with family
and friends back home. I then realized
that what I was actually doing was a diary of sorts. Something that I could keep forever and
reminisce over. It has always been more of a photo journal than anything. I am not a photographer, I’m not a writer or
author and I am certainly not a social commentator. The Madness is just purely a little about what
it’s like to live in Vietnam, especially with kids, from my perspective. Much to my surprise other people seemed to
find it useful as well so with that in mind I added a few things that might be
helpful for anyone coming to visit or thinking of living here.
The last few weeks
have been akin to ripping a band-aid off 1 millimeter at a time. I’m going to try not to fill this final post
with clichés but it’s been a fascinating transition for me personally,
re-training myself for the “real” world.
I am notoriously awful at goodbyes.
I try to avoid them at any cost.
I have found myself going out less and less in order to avoid seeing the
amazing Vietnamese people I usually interact with every day, so I don’t have to
tell them I’m going. The Banh Mi lady,
my Xe Om driver, the old Orange Juice lady.
Instead I find myself slowly reintroducing myself to Australia. Reading Australian newspapers online,
listening to Aussie radio, trolling the Internet for items we will need to buy
upon our return. In essence, I have
mentally checked out already. And you
know what? It’s ok. I feel ready.
I feel excited. I am nervous but
looking forward to the next step.
Looking back, what
an adventure it has been. I’m not going to attempt to sum it up in a paragraph
suffice to say that the 4 of us are leaving very different people than the 4
who arrived in early 2010. Wonderful
memories, incredible opportunities and renewed perspectives on life and the
people in it.
I want to say a
great big thank you to anyone that has taken the time to read my ramblings,
especially those who made the extra effort to comment. You kept me going when I usually suspected I
was writing to myself. To all of our fabulous friends and work colleagues, thank you for making our time here one we will never forget. Thank you to the
most amazing husband for sharing the journey with me and the 2 of the most
awesome kids I know for being so incredibly brave, adaptable and trusting when
your parents plonked you in strange country and said “right, this is home now”. I am so proud of you and you set fine
examples of what being a global citizen is about.
To Vietnam, what
can I say? Thank you from the bottom of
my broken heart. You have enriched me,
frustrated me, overwhelmed me and educated me. The changes I have seen in you over the last few years have been
huge. Some for the better, some….not so
much. But you are brave and determined
and your future is bright. You will
always hold a very special place in my heart.
Hen Gap Lai.
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Thanks to Mark Stennett at Drift Photography for this wicked shot of Nick and I. Damn this crazy town. We will miss you so....... |